In sports, the words role model are used very freely, but do the athletes for which these words are used understand the greater meaning behind them. These athletes would argue that they never signed up to be role models; but at what point does a higher call to decency make them one? Millions of children look up to them because these competitors are what they hope to be; they are larger than life and all the more heroic for it. Whereas role models should be readily available in the homes of these children, unfortunately most of them never see such an authentic example, leading them in a quest to find one; a quest which habitually ends at the sneakers or cleats of these superstars.
It is certainly acceptable to admire celebrity and the perks that come with it; however you must be content to be enough without it. Many athletes would argue firmly that they have no obligation to be the role models these children need, and it would simply go to further the point. It is not about the needs of the athletes, but about the needs of the children who require advice and an example of what they can make of the world.
Professionally the standard of this writer in the world of sports comes in the form of a person who has performed the trade I now hope to pursue with the vigor that he has brought to the business for so long. As he prepares for a sabbatical that he hopes will help him find the part of him that will complete him, I find myself searching for the path he has already walked. He has been a shining example of hard work and passion for this business, not because he was asked to be but because of the realization that with any status of celebrity there are people watching your every move.
Unfortunately in a world of "me first", the example being provided to the younger generation is not as shining. At what point do the John Smoltz's of the world balance the Kobe Bryant's. Is it even fair to expect from them that which many times can not be found in the people entrusted to protect these same children? Maybe it is not, nevertheless, why is it so hard for these men and women to realize that whether they choose it or not there are always young eyes looking for guidance.
It is not enough to infer that children should look closer to home for their role models; we must take the opportunity to ensure that we do the right thing; not because we have to, but because they deserve it.
My only hope is that through my words, someone, athlete or not, rich or poor, provides the example that my exemplar has shown me; and for always being that example I thank you.
1 comment:
the problem is that nowadays, no one admires the athletic talent one develops through years of training, learning, and refining their skills. they only admire the flash and flair which is so appealing on the HD screens. As in hip hop, the fame is often more than the talent, and not many people are famous for their good deeds, but rather their image, clever comments, and attitude. If Kobe Bryant wasn't so "cool", they fans would find someone "cooler", and Kobe would be worth a lot less. Also, the more marketable the person visually, the more endorsements and perks they will receive from corporations and the common public which can often add up to more than their actual salaries. I think just as many people would show up to a Lakers game if Kobe Bryant was traded for Rick Ross. The people want a show, and those who were once athletes are now actors. Humility is harder to attain than money sometimes. I thank you for speaking out on this matter.
Post a Comment